A guided reset for two.
Close the gap between you.
Marriage Reset turns “we should work on us” into small, doable actions you actually take — one week at a time, together.
$18/month or $180/year — one subscription covers both of you.
A minute with Aryeh.
Ninety seconds on why the gap opens — and how two people close it.
Most marriages don't break. They drift.
There's a gap that opens quietly between two people who still love each other — built from good intentions never acted on, needs never quite said out loud, and weeks that blur together. You don't need a crisis to feel it. You just need to look up one day and realize you've become roommates who are polite.
Marriage Reset is built for that gap. Not to diagnose it. To close it — one concrete action at a time.
Feelings follow actions, not the other way around.
Do, don't just feel.
You won't “communicate better” by wanting to. You will by taking one specific action your spouse can actually notice. Marriage Reset only ever asks for actions you can measure.
Advocate for the marriage.
This isn't a place to prove your case or fix your spouse. No diagnosing, no therapizing each other. You each show up for the marriage — and it meets you halfway.
Give first.
The fastest way to feel closer is to give in a way your partner actually feels. So we help you learn exactly what lands for them — and quietly track your giving.
Simple enough to actually keep doing.
Say what “loved” means to you.
Each of you names the needs and actions that genuinely make you feel loved. Your partner sees what matters most to them — so you stop guessing.
Take one small action a day.
Pick from a library of 100+ real, measurable actions — or add your own. Log it privately. Your streak shows your partner you're showing up; the details stay yours.
Check in together each week.
A short weekly check-in for both of you. Scores stay hidden until you've both submitted — so no one anchors to the other. Watch your trajectory bend upward over the weeks.
Everything you need. Nothing to overthink.
The Idea Library
100+ measurable actions across connection, communication, intimacy, partnership, appreciation, and Shabbat & Spiritual. Search, filter, and make them your own.
Daily giving log
Private by default. Your partner sees your streak, never your entries.
Weekly check-in
Locked scoring until both of you submit. Honest, not performative.
Your trajectory
A simple picture of where the two of you are trending over time.
Private reflections
Yours alone unless you explicitly choose to share one.
Gentle reminders
So the week doesn't slip. You choose the time and the tone.
Video guidance
Short lessons that walk you through each idea, on your schedule.
Built for two, respected as one
One subscription, two private spaces, shared where it counts.
Honesty needs safety. So we built for it.
Marriage Reset only works if it's safe to be honest in. So your private space is genuinely private. Your reflections are yours unless you choose to share one. Your giving log's contents are never shown to your partner — only your streak. Your baseline answers are owner-only. And you can quietly step back at any time, with immediate effect. This is a tool for your marriage — never one used against it.
Guidance from someone who's walked couples through this.
Marriage Reset is led by short video lessons from Aryeh Weinstein, drawn from years of guiding couples and the ideas in his book The Gap. Think of it as having the facilitator in the room — teaching each concept, then handing it back to the two of you to actually do. Learn at your own pace, on your own couch.
One price. Both of you. Cancel anytime.
Monthly
- Full access for both spouses
- The complete Idea Library
- Weekly check-ins & trajectory
- Video guidance
- Cancel anytime
Questions people ask.
Do we each need our own login?
Yes — you each get your own private space, and one subscription covers you both.
Can my spouse see everything I write?
No. Your reflections and the contents of your giving log stay private. Your partner sees shared items (like what makes you feel loved) and your streak — nothing more — unless you choose to share.
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. Marriage Reset is a structured self-guided tool for two committed partners. It's not a substitute for professional help, and it will point you toward it if that's what your situation needs.
What if I want to stop?
You can step back quietly at any time, and it takes effect immediately. Cancel your subscription anytime from the billing page.
Do we need the book first?
No. The app stands on its own. If you've read The Gap, even better.
Your marriage is worth one small action today.
Start the reset together — it takes about five minutes to set up.
Get Started$18/month or $180/year · one subscription for both of you.